Remember friends when I said there would never be another birthday party for Sarah in this house? It was the 12 year old's birthday from hell.
Because I had allowed Laura to have a sweet sixteen birthday party I felt like I should allow Sarah to have her friends over for her birthday too. Laura's friends hung out at the house frequently and were usually neat and polite. They were a real pleasure to have around. Sarah's friends were different. I had only brief encounters with them in passing. When they came to the house it was only to pick up Sarah or get something left behind. They tended not to linger so I couldn't really get to know them. But anyway, I digress, Sarah's friends were DIFFERENT.
Laura's friends
Sarah's friends
Laura's friends
Sarah's friendsThe night of the party they were rude to me, loud, obnoxious (not all of them, just most), there were three times as many as Sarah and I had discussed inviting. At the time our house might have been a whole whopping 1200 square feet so you see how this could be a problem. But wait, they did spend a lot of time outside being loud and obnoxious. Our poor neighbors. I would have called the police if this were happening next door. I was ready to send everybody home by 7:00! But no, the girls were invited to spend the night. I don't remember when the boys left, just that it was really late and I wanted to go to bed hoping to awake the next morning to find it was but a nightmare and everything was ok. But it wasn't.
The girls snuck in and (is snuck a word? well it is now) out of the house all night. Seems that one or two had a bad crush on a little hottie a couple of doors down who was about 2 or 3 years older then these kids and really soon now should be going to jail on drug related crimes according to the Decatur Daily. Not a real winner. They should have just left him alone.
The deal was, the next morning I was to get up and go to church and while I was gone, the little ladies left behind were to tidy up a bit and disappear before I came home. Most were gone but there was one little girl that kept lying about not being able to locate her dad and nobody was home and she didn't have a key so she had to stay at the house with us. Late in the afternoon, when I am ready to tie her to the train track at the end of the street, her dad calls worried that she has not been in touch with him. She was supposed to call his cell phone when she needed him to pick her up. Little bitch. She was staying as long as possible so she could flirt with that boy.
Apparently they forgot the tidy up part. When I returned Sunday morning I found food on the furniture, shelves, and the floor in every room in the house! One of the little monsters (and it's blamed on the little girl that would not leave) placed her piece of cake, less the plate, on the floor in my daycare room, sat on the rocking horse, and smushed it into the rug! Ooooh I was irate!
I remember it as if it happened only last week. No more birthday parties for Sarah at this house! But I gave in. Eight years later I allowed Sarah, and all new but still strange friends, to throw a party. I've found that though the names have changed, Sarah's friends are still much the same. Only this time they were not rude or obnoxious, at least not to or in front of me, just intoxicated.
Sarah's 20th